Traveling the world means expanding your horizon and learning new things. Traveling the world can make you a better person. You can very quickly become aware of what is important in life and establish new priorities. I believe that being a traveler means educating yourself and building on your character.
Becoming a real traveler takes time and it's in itself a learning curve. I'm sure at least once you had a bad experience on a plane, or you dealt with a person who treated you badly. It’s all part of being a traveler and it’s not always just pink and flowers. But Ghandi once said: "Be the change you want to see in the world", and this is exactly what I'm telling you today, to follow this list of simple rules and become the outstanding traveler you want everyone else to be. Together, as travelers, we are a community, a family, and we should teach and learn from each other.
1. Speak quietly
When you are in a public place, make sure to keep your voice to a conversational level. Don’t be too loud as you might disturb others around you. A good traveler is an educated traveler.
2. Respect other peoples’ space
Don't get into someone's personal space. Many people mind if they can feel your breath at the back of their neck when they queue somewhere. This also applies when you ask for directions or want to have a conversation. Always keep a reasonable distance.
3. Respect your elders
Be patient around the elderly, respect and listen to them. They have more life experience, they are the wiser ones. Ask them questions, learn from them. Please be patient if they can't climb the stairs or can't leave the plane as quickly as you want them to.
4. Know when to recline your seat on a plane
This can cause a lot of stress! It's impossible for the person behind you to eat if you have your chair reclined. If the lights on the airplane are on, just put your chair in its upright position. We all thank you.
5. Don’t grab someone’s chair in front of you
Use the arm rests to aid yourself, not the chair in front of you. That passenger might have just fallen asleep and you are waking them up. It’s not nice.
6. Don’t bang on that chair
The passenger in front of you is trying to relax, read or catch some sleep. Just don't bang on the back of their chair. This also applies to your children, stop them from banging on other people's chairs.
7. Respect other people’s privacy
People need their space and privacy. If someone reads a book or watches a movie, it's rude to lean over to check what they are doing.
8. Be polite
A smile, a 'please' and a 'thank you' can take you a long way. People always appreciate when someone talks nicely to them and you have more chances getting your problem solved. Screaming at someone will only make them angry and unwilling to listen to you.
9. Respect other cultures
When visiting a country make sure to learn about their customs. Familiarise yourself with the Dos and Don'ts and act accordingly. Don't ever assume you can get away with things just become you are from a different country.
10. Always come prepared
Don't rely on others when traveling. Bring medicine, take out a travel insurance, have several bank cards and be prepared for all possibilities. Don't think you can always rely on the governments, police or other public institutions as some countries have high levels of corruption. Check the Foreign Travel Advice website and learn how to prepare accordingly.
11. Keep an open mind
Don't shy away from new experiences and try to keep an open mind. Try to learn new things, be inquisitive and ask questions. Traveling the world means becoming more culturally enriched, making memories and not just acquiring tons of photos.
12. Respect other people’s right to enjoy an attraction
You are not the only traveler around wishing to see, touch or photograph an attraction. I'm not saying you should always rush around, but you should always be considerate towards others. When there is a queue, don't just stand in front of a statue and take 50 pictures with all different members of the family.
13. Don’t expect everyone to speak your language
Let's say you are visiting Japan but no one really speaks English. Should you get angry? Of course not! You are a guest in a different country, you are the one who should know the basics of that language and make an effort to integrate. Good travelers should never expect others to bend their ways around them.
14. Be patient
Don't huff and puff behind another person. If you really can't wait, just nicely communicate your issue. Are you waiting in a queue and afraid you might miss your plane? Just ask the people in front for consideration. Making angry sounds behind a person will only slow them down and make them feel awkward. Above all? They probably don't even understand what they are doing wrong.
15. Cover your mouth if you are ill
ALWAYS! Please don't cough in my face, nor sneeze in my drink. Just cover your mouth! No exceptions, EVER!
16. Don’t push and pull others
Just because you push someone in front of you, the queue won't move any faster. If you have a problem, communicate it nicely.
17. Don’t force your way in
Stop pushing in. Everyone else is waiting patiently for their turn. You should too.
18. Clean after yourself
ALWAYS! Please pick up your rubbish and find a bin. If you are sharing a room in a hostel or apartment, please clean after yourself and be considerate. If you are smoking, drinking or eating in nature, please don't leave your rubbish around. Come on, you know it's that easy.
19. Look after your children
Here is a scenario for you: You saved for years to afford an awesome holiday and on your way there the only thing you can hear is a child screaming for hours on end. Would you like that? Of course not! The thing is, nobody does. Please be a good traveler and look after your children. Don't allow them to scream, bang, cry or be loud. You might think making funny noises is cute, but the rest of us don't. Just be considerate.
20. Step aside, don’t stop in the middle
Do you want to take a nice picture or an awesome selfie? Want to have a conversation with someone you just stumbled across? Step aside and don't stop in the middle.
21. Respect other country's laws and rules
If you see a massive no entry sign, don't go in. If you see a 'no photo' zone, put your camera away. If the flight attendant tells you to get your chairs upright, do so. Rules and laws are in place for everyone's comfort and benefit. When not respecting the rules, you are a bad traveller, and nobody likes a bad traveler.
22. The golden rule
The rule is simple: if it bothers you, chances are it will bother everyone else too. To be a great traveler you just need to use common sense. Always ask yourself: Would it bother me if someone else would do it? If the answer is yes, please reconsider.
Did you memorise all of them? Brilliant, you are now on the right track to become an awesome traveler. Did I miss something? What do you think makes a good traveler? Let me know in the comment section bellow.